Reverse thinking: The wonderful law of human nature, the more you care about something, the less you get
Human nature is funny. You can look at your friends right now.Those who like to show off most of what, are often the least of what?Or is that what he lacks most?For example, if you look at those who are constantly posted on wechat moments, they are all about persistence and effort, which shows that this person lacks persistence and effort.Someone swears to want to reduce weight how many jins, finally also mostly do not get it done.Those who flaunt their wealth, cars, watches, and travel are, in fact, mostly just faking it.The more a person emphasizes persistence, it means that he also vaguely knows that he will give up sooner or later, but does not dare to face directly.It’s like losing weight. If you just care about what other people think of you, you can keep it up for a week or two, or even a month or two, but it’s hard to keep it up for years.If, is to get a piece of paper, a hospital diagnosis, not thin down will die.You rest assured, years of fat, less than a month disappeared.At the end of the day, find the real motivation behind whatever you decide to do.For example, if you want to make money, what you really want is not making money at all.What will you do when you make money?You said that after making money to buy a car, a house, eat and drink, to travel around the world, to achieve freedom of life……?What happens when you do that?What do you do with that?OK, this is what you really want in your heart.Every time someone would say, “I’ll just eat and die,” of course.But, you also must let oneself have first, mix eat wait for the strength to say later.When you’re moving toward a goal that is truly central to you.You don’t have to force yourself to be disciplined, to work hard, to persevere, to force yourself to do anything?I don’t have to pretend to be a jerk. Show people what?Because, everything is you want, everything is you really want to do!Persistence and hard work are never as important as the direction in your heart.Because that direction is your own Tao!Pay attention to the knowledge of the letter, private letter, free to send you two subversion of human nature inside, effectively enhance the reverse thinking, deduce the ability of e-books.